Thursday, January 28, 2010

I've been meaning to write...

On Tuesday I put a post-it (LOVE those btw) in my planner that read "had one of those days" little did I know it would turn into one of those weeks. My purpose of leaving myself a little note was to jog my memory...( ya know even though I'm young and all I still have frequent lapses of memory... not quite sure what that's all about I just continue to pretend it's normal)

Anywho, you can now see why I have to leave myself post-its...

I left myself a note so that I would remember to write.

Often during the day, things come up (in my mind that is) and I think, I need to write.

I had one of those days on Tuesday, you know the ones where everything seems real peachy and then the next thing you know you're in a tailspin... well that happened, and little did I know that it would turn into one of those weeks.

The crazy kind.

You see, I've been a tad busy lately trying to pin down wedding details, being a good employee, getting this body into shape; and in doing all that, I've started pondering about what the next few months will hold and how drastically my life could change.

I started thinking about what it is exactly I want out of life...

this is a big questions ya know...

that leads to other big questions

the scary kind.

And to be honest I haven't really put much thought into them. I'm the type of person that just goes with the flow, or at least I think I do, maybe I should ask Mr. R his opinion on that...

I try to be happy with whatever life brings my way... not to say that I'm not a planner and driven

but those big questions kept lingering and I started pondering about what really makes happy, what I love, what I could live with and what I could NOT live without. How (in a perfect world... which I know is not reality but a girl can dream right?!?!?) I would envision our life in 5+ years.

So I'm asking......

Give me your best LIFE advice.

What did you do right?

What do you wish you would have done differently? or better?

How is it being a grown up?

I'd kind of like to be a kid forever and let my parents take care of me....

If you could do it all over again would you change a thing?


  1. Good ?, I still wonder what I want out of life, however I wouldn't change a thing...even the crappy things. The more you try to plan life it seems the more it doesn't go your way. I say make good decisions, think before you make then and always go with your gut instincts, they never fail you! trust me on this one! Put happiness in the mix with a lot of love and you are good to go my dear! Lot's of changes are coming your way, but don't let that put fear in your step, it is fun to be a kid, but responsibility surely keeps you grounded...xoxoxo

  2. Honestly, focusing on your marriage and making it a healthy and happy one is the very best thing you can do for your children...don't forget that...or neglect your marriage even after the kids come...and to have a good marriage you BOTH need to have a strong relationship with God...when things get tough (and there's always a few rough patches in life), He's the one you will really need...

    :) T